Monday, December 15, 2014

It's that time of the year....

It's that time of the year!

The holiday season?


Flu season.

With that comes runny noses and high temperatures (not outside unfortunately) and possibly other yucky stuff. Well, I won't go into too much detail with all the yucky stuff but remember when attending our meetings to use common sense and don't bring a sick child or come if you are sick yourself.

That includes avoiding meetings if you or little one are:
*running a fever of 100.4 or higher within the last 24 hours
*any vomiting or diarrhea within the last 24 hours
*a common cold with discolored nasal mucus or a cough
*sore throat
*an undiagnosed rash or skin infection
*any symptoms of any childhood communicable diseases
*pinkeye or other contagious infections
*suspected mononucleosis

We have pregnant moms as well as very small infants and children at our meetings and we want to keep everyone healthy!

If you cannot make a meeting and have a carrier to return, simply contact one of the librarians and they can help to figure out an arrangement to get your carrier returned in a timely fashion so that you can avoid a late fee.

And here's some tips to make babywearing your little one who is sick a bit easier on both of you.

1. Pick one carrier (if you've got multiple) and stick with it. You don't really want to get more than one full of those yucky germs.

2. Make that one carrier you're using with your sick baby something that is easily washable. And when they're feeling better go ahead and wash it so they don't start sucking on their favorite spot and get themselves sick all over again. (If you have a carrier checked out from our lending library, just contact a librarian if you need to wash. We'll give you instructions on how to wash that specific carrier.)

3. Make sure you pick a carrier that's comfortable for you and your baby, not your one you use for quick up and downs. That sick baby may just go to sleep and take a long nap. You don't want to interrupt that just because you picked a carrier you use for short periods of time.

4. They may have a fever and want snuggles but make sure not to overheat your little one. Pay real close attention on how many layers (pajamas, wrap, favorite snuggle blanket they must cuddle) they really are covered with.

5. If you're both exhausted from being up all night and sickness, remember that it is not safe to wear your baby while you are sleeping. Not laying in bed, not sitting up in your favorite rocking chair, not anywhere. You need to be awake when babywearing to monitor your wearee at all times. If you need sleep, let someone else wear the baby who can be awake.

6. Babywearing is great for those babies who need a nap but are too congested to be laying down comfortably. But always remember tip number 4.

7. It is possible sometimes to transfer a sleeping little one to a crib or bed. Make sure you don't leave the carrier with them in such a way that they could inadvertently injure themselves by pulling the long wrap over themselves or getting caught in a carrier strap. Slide the carrier out from under them.

8. Enjoy all the cuddles, especially when your little one is sick and is more snuggly than usual, because they grow so fast and soon enough, these days will be just fond memories!

Monday, November 24, 2014

What's the Difference?

We often get questions about the differences between SSC (Soft Structured Carrier) Brands. The differences are often small but can make a big difference in comfort from person to person. People tend to want an easy answer to the question “which SSC is best for me?” The problem is that especially with SSC’s there tends to not be an easy answer to the question of which one is best. Just as each brand of SSC varies from another; every wearer’s body varies from another. This means that while one brand may be a perfect fit for one caregiver, it is not necessarily a perfect fit for the next.

There are a few main differences that can often be found between brands. For example, some brands place the waist buckle in the back and some place it on the side. Some brands only pull one direction to tighten waist and arm straps while others pull both directions. Those differences aren't the focus of this post though; here I want to concentrate on subtler things that can make a difference in how a carrier fits you. In order to demonstrate those differences I am going to compare two standard size Action Baby Carriers (ABC’s).

Action Baby Carrier changed ownership a little over a year ago and many people have noticed that since the ownership change there have been some changes in the carriers as well. This is not a bad thing. It happens. Carriers change and companies change. It is however an easy way to show how small differences in the same brand and size of carrier can change the way that carrier wears and feels for caregiver and baby. Below you will see pictures comparing an older ABC and a newer ABC(after ownership change) and I will point out some differences between the two carriers.

In the photos below both the Pink/Green wave and the Green/black carriers are older ABC’s. The Grey Carrier is a newer ABC. The waves carrier is exactly the same as the green one except for the fact that the green is one of their organic carriers. These are all standard sized carriers.
 Inside of the grey and green ABC’s
Outside of the grey and Pink/Green Waves ABC’s
Height comparison with hoods down.
Close up of Height comparison. (grey, Pink/green waves. Hoods up)

Height Comparison with hoods up. (Grey and Waves)
Height Comparison with hoods up. (Grey and Green)
You can see above that the padded portion of the waist band is very similar and approximately the same length.
The waist straps however are significantly different in length. The longer one on top is the newer grey carrier. This means it would fit a wider range of body sizes.
This photo shows the placement of the arm buckle from the front. You can see that the grey carrier(Far left) has a much different placement than the other 2.
Comparison of arm buckle placement from the inside of the carrier.

Grey Carrier.
Same child in green carrier.
Same child again in grey carrier

For me personally wearing an almost 2 year old and being short I found the older ABC's more comfortable than the newer one. One reason was height difference in the carriers. The advantage of the shorter body on the newer carrier is that it can be used sooner with a small baby. The disadvantage is that it doesn't provide as much support when wearing a toddler.

Height difference aside as that aspect would only be an issue if I was wearing for a long time, I did not like the placement of the arm buckle on the newer carrier. When tightened to where I needed it the difference in placement meant that the buckle on the older carriers hit me fine but on the newer carrier it dug into my armpit. Someone taller would not have the same issue, which demonstrates the point that every wearer and every SSC is different so what works for one may not work for another.

The 3 main things I pointed out here: Height difference, arm buckle placement and waist strap length, are not huge differences. They are however things that can make a difference in how the carrier fits both wearer and baby. They are also not necessarily things you would notice much unless you tried the carrier, which is why there is no easy answer to the question “which SSC is best for me?”.

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

International Babywearing Week - a quick wrap up!

Hopefully I'm not the only one that sees the humor in the title of this post when it comes to babywearing. It seems that wraps do take a little while to learn but once you get the hang of it, a woven wrap has so much versatility. As does our BWI of NCIL group! Our 2014 International Babywearing Week had everything from workshops to yoga to walking around the zoo wearing our little ones. Just want to share a few of the great photos we got during International Babywearing Week in October. The theme for the week was "Share the Adventure" and we did just that!

We also want to give a shout out to our wonderful sponsors and donors! Thank you so much. We could not have had as successful a week without your support. Be sure to show these companies some love! Also, Babywearing International received many sponsors from a lot of companies that helped our IBW turn out as a great week!

The Big Event!

BWI of NCIL Leadership Team

Katy, Jen, Melissa, Tressa, Sarah, Justine, Christi, Jacquelyn, Tabitha, Rachel, Rashada, Alieta, Missy
Not pictured: Ali, Susan

Phillips Park Zoo in Aurora

More babywearing moments throughout IBW

Scarecrow Fest in St. Charles
We didn't win a prize this year but we sure had fun going and taking pictures with our scarecrows.

We had so much fun! If you missed out on any of our workshops or events from International Babywearing Week, you can always come to one of our meetings.

Friday, October 24, 2014

Cold Weather Babywearing

I don’t think of it too often but we are really lucky to live in a place where we can experience each of the four seasons in all of their glory.  They really are amazing when you think about it, and I find myself always looking forward to each of them (with exception of this year, I will admit I am not quite ready for winter again if it is going to be like the last one!). Fall gives us a bit of a break from the warm weather, beautiful colors and plentiful harvests.  Winter gives us snow to play in, hot chocolate to sip and lots of time with family.   It also gives us more reasons to wear those babies while we get outside and enjoy the outdoors.  I love babywearing in the cooler weather, I feel like it gives me a much better sense of how warm or cold my little one is and I usually have a much more willing wearee in the cooler months.   Hopefully you can find some tips here to help with everything from those quick trips into the store to those all day outdoor adventures. 

In general there are several things to keep in mind when wearing your little one out in the cold. 

1.       Safety First - The same main babywearing principles and safety precautions need to be followed.   Always keep your little one close enough to kiss and their face always needs to be visible.  Their chin should be off their chest and their back well supported to keep them from slumping in the carrier.   Take care to tighten properly if using winter coats or bunting to ensure they are well supported since the added bulk can give the illusion that a carrier is tight enough when in reality it isn’t providing proper support. 

2.      Dress Appropriately - Dressing in layers for both you and your little one is always a good idea as it is proven to keep you warmer.  It also means that if you end up indoors you can remove a layer or two to keep you both comfortable while inside.   Don’t over dress though.  Keep in mind that your body heat will be adding warmth and the carrier provides another layer also.

3.       There’s a lot more bulk!-  Added layers and thicker materials mean less flexibility and range of motion for both you and your little one.  Your muscle memory can be thrown off and the way you normally get your little one in a carrier is going to feel a little different to both of you.  You need to be extra aware of this and really focus on those times when you are getting your little one in and out of the carrier.  Don’t be afraid to ask for help.  Back carries especially can become tricky when dealing with extra layers and bulk.  Even if you consider yourself an experienced wearer I recommend practicing with a spotter or in a mirror a time or two so you can get a feel for it.  Mei tais, soft structured carriers and wraps can easily get caught and stuck on sweatshirts, jackets and hoods, keeping you from getting the carrier all the way up over baby’s back so make sure you check in a reflective surface, with a handheld mirror or ask another person to make sure baby is safely seated in the carrier. 

 The Basic Essentials:

There are many options when it comes to cold weather wearing (more on those later!). You just need to find what works for you and your child.  For me, there are several things that I consider a necessity, I keep these in my car during the fall and winter so that I always have them handy.  This way I am prepared for quick trips into the store and also for longer or unexpected periods of time outside.  

- Blanket - I like to use one that is soft and warm but not too thick to use as a make-shift carrier cover.  It is something that I always have available and it doesn’t cost me any extra money since I already have plenty of blankets.  I simply feed the corners of the blanket through my carrier to create my own cover.  This can be done in a front or back carry with any carrier type and it provides great added protection from the elements. 

- Hat - Make sure to choose one that secures under the chin especially for those older babies and toddlers on your back.  Having a hat that secures under the chin might seem like a silly small detail but it's not much fun getting your little one all ready to go on your back only to see their hat lying on the ground. 

  - Leg warmers - Perfect to cover that gap between pants and socks that inevitably happens, you don’t even have to take shoes off or get your little one out of the carrier to put them on which makes life so much easier!   



 So many options

Below is a list of items that are great for cold weather wearing.  This is just some ideas to get you started and not a complete or endorsed list of options.
Leg Warmers/thigh high socks -  Agoo (great for bigger kids), Babylegs, Rock-A-Thigh Baby Socks (check these out for socks to match your Beco Carrier!)  Also make sure to check out the many tutorials available to make your own leg warmers and thigh high socks.
Carrier Covers -   Catbird Baby, Diva Milano , Ergo, Infantino, Kowalli, MaM, all offer carrier covers.  There are great tutorials out there for making your own cover also.
Babywearing Coats -   Boba Hoodie, Boba Vest,Diva Milano, MaM has several options, Suse's Kinder-Coat,.  There are many options on Etsy and there are many great and simple tutorials available on how to make your own.   You can also use a coat that is a couple sizes too  big to use for front carries without making any modifications. 
Jacket Inserts/Extenders -   Hatch Things, Make My Belly Fit, several options on Etsy
Additional Accessories - You can use multipurpose straps to attach a blanket to your carrier. Try a  Cover Me Strap, one from etsy or you can make your own.

 A Few Quick Tips 

 Ring Slings -  Use the tail to double back over the main pouch and add an additional layer to cover baby.  Use the tail to cover their legs or use it like a hood to protect them from rain or snow
SSC or Mei Tai -  Put a rain coat over your carrier by placing the straps through the sleeves to help protect it and your little one from the elements.  
Wrap -  Use a wool and/or densely woven wrap for added warmth.  Use a long wrap and a multilayer carry for added layers. 

How to create a carrier cover with only a blanket -

Happy Babywearing!